Happiness Ensues

April 11, 2022

“Don’t aim at success—the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side-effect of one’s dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long run—in the long run, I say!—success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think of it.”

Perhaps my most often shared quote – I think I’ve found a way to include this in every speech or presentation I’ve given in the past 10 years.  Obviously one of my favorites, but then again, most of the highlights or quotes from MSfM are my favorites!  I like this one because it gives us direction – and maybe because it is quite contradictory to the world we live in today.  He tells us NOT to seek success and happiness, for they are too elusive – but MEANING – in discovering meaning we will find success and happiness.  Kind of ironic – “success” and “happiness” are elusive terms, hard to define in his mind; but “meaning” – that is one he feels we should understand better.  Again, somewhat contradictory to a world that is constantly feeding us “happiness” in consumer goods and foods, and telling us “success” is the ability to consume at an ever greater rate.  When I look at it that way, maybe MEANING is a little easier to define – experience the world and love of others, create things that beautify the world, and wisely choose your attitude towards life and its struggles.  I wonder what the world would be like if more people choose to discover meaning rather than chasing success and happiness?

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