Suffering in Good Humor

“Humor was another of the soul’s weapons in the fight for self-preservation. It is well known that humor, more than anything else in the human make-up, can afford an aloofness and an ability to rise above any situation.” Pain, guilt, death.  Frankl’s...

Good work, Dad.

Happy belated Father’s Day to all you Dads, and, of course, to all you Moms who support us!  I hope you had a relaxing day with your family.  Maybe you got to watch some World Cup Soccer, or enjoy a little quiet time out mowing the lawn. I’ve had the...

Rules for Fair Fighting

We all get into disagreements with our loved ones – spouses, significant others, partners.  Most people only bring into a relationship what they learned from their family of origin and past relationships, both good and bad.  It is impossible to agree on...

We Are All Just a Bunch of Addicts

I saw an news brief on teens entering “smartphone addiction” treatment centers in Malibu, CA at a cost of $50k / month…  If I’m honest with myself, I’m pretty sure I’ve seen some evidence of this new phenomenon in my office and in my own home. We’ve all heard of the...